Iām 26 and have had ongoing issues with losing erections during sex. This app has helped me a lot in understanding why and regaining some control. However, Iāve always been unable to maintain an erection when any sexual partner Iāve had has been on top.
Itās like a feeling of being overwhelmed. I think maintaining an erection is dependent on feeling āin controlā for me. Does anyone else have this problem?
I definitely relate to this, but for me itās always felt like the sensation wasnāt as good.
I had always wondered if I would have had the same problem with a hyper-flexible and athletic porn star. (But much more likely Iām just looking to move the blame away from me.)
This is because of the restriction of blood flow when youāre laying down. Obviously everyone is different but i overcome this by getting more turned on in other positions before i let my partner go on top. When i feel like iām losing control, i switch it up again.
Hope this helps
Ooh the blood flow comment is interestingā¦ for me when I started having issues she would try to get me to relax by being on top but maybe that was counterproductiveā¦
I can definitely relate. Her on top is a struggle for me. The one time it did feel better and I could keep an erection was when she was moving very slowly and gently, gave me more of a sensation. Perhaps you could try that. But I agree, think itās a control thing.