I’m 20. Whenever I have sex (and sometimes when I masturbate) after about 5 minutes I start to get softer, it’s definitely not because I’m turned off! Because I’m really not! I don’t feel like it’s because I’m anxious or worried about the situation because I’ve never done one night stands before, it’s always been someone I’ve known and/or trusted and I’ve recently starting dating someone, yet to have sex but I don’t want (whenever it may be) our first time to be embarrassing or a let down. Help anyone?