How was trying stop-start for the first time?

I think this will help.

Amazing thank you!

Followed the advice. Went for left hand and lots of lube. The changes made me very relaxed and the aim to not finish early took away anxiety about staying hard. So - cruised to 10mins with solid erection and tuned in to the control. Enjoyable and really good for confidence.

Erection waxed and waned but I felt aroused throughout and had less anxiety

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I became aroused and tried different positions, but didn’t get hard. I remembered that this is a learning process and that it’s okay, just keep exploring to discover more about bodily sensations

It felt good and I was able to stop twice before Cumming at the end, switched to the left hand for a different feel and it worked well I think. I think next time I will try to stop longer until the election goes down. But in the bright side I was erect nearly the entire time!

I was definitely aroused, the first stop made me loose a little bit of stiffness, had to find some inspiration to keep it hard.

Really good sensation at the end of accomplishment, at end it felt like a torture holding my climax, but it’s the game.

I stopped 4 to 5 times.

It felt very doable and I will continue using this exercise.

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It was great. Getting hard after first time felt very different and more in control. Was hard to fight urge to come but managed it

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I found it difficult to become aroused

It was great! And I found it easier to control my arousal after going down to a 1-5 the first time, almost as if it took the shock out of my body and relaxed me.

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Learning my point of no return really helps me understand how far I can go on any given moment in bed, eventually I hope it becomes subconscious

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Didn’t really come too close to the edge this time, I suspect it was because recent anal play left me with a more relaxed pelvic floor, like those reverse kegels the app suggests. But I successfully masturbated for 10 minutes without cumming, which is it’s own win!

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Climaxed at the end and it was so much better after edging

Felt good, didn’t come close to cumming and helped to picture it as a scale and stopping at 1-5.

I felt like I had to stop very often, but hopeful it will work

Had to stop a lot of times, especially after a while

Had to stop a lot of times, especially after the 6 minute mark

My boyfriend caused us edging. He can edge for hours. I love doing this when trying it. I had to stop maybe about five or six times. I use box breathing to stop my climax. I felt relaxed the entire time no anxiety. I will continue to do this three times a week. I want to last longer in bed and keep my direction longer as well. I did notice that at times during box breathing, I started to lose my erection, but I focused on the sensations in penis, how warm it was, how tight my grip was, and using my left hand to change the sensation. I’m going to hold my climax.

Only had to stop once but lost my erection towards the end.