I exceeded 10 minutes and went on to do a 35 minute guided maturation session.
Amazing!
I started to lose my erection when I used my non dominant hand 
I didn’t get hard for a second
I struggled to get hard and still finished early
The technique is pretty similar to how I masurbate normally. But I did identify a bit of a trigger - during the 10 mins when I wasn’t ‘allowed’ to cum, it was easy to control myself. But as soon as I was ‘allowed’ to, I struggled to control myself, even though I totally don’t want to cum tonight.
Something around the permission factor dissolves my determination.
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First time masturbating with lube
It felt weird at first and it took longer than usual to get hard but once I did I got lost in it and lost the time. I almost climaxed twice but each time I toned it down.
This was a very enjoyable session for me. Even before I had the getting hard problem I always came too fast and would think of non-sexy or even gross things to prevent me from cumming but this was something very unhealthy, contributed to my boner issue, and didn’t even really work. Glad to begin working on this as well.
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Really challenging! Feels like I go from 4 to 7 quickly. I came earlier than planned… got distracted
Need more time
It felt strange. Didnt get the arousal i usually get with my non dominant hand but it was still an interesting excersize
I was able to masturbate the whole 10 minutes. Usually when I’m watching porn I have to stop about after 2 :00 or else I will cum. This felt a lot more in connection with my body
Struggled with non dominant hand
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Without visual stimuli I was really able to pay attention to and connect with my body. I didn’t really feel in danger of tipping over the edge and was able to last the whole 10 minutes.
It was great and I maintained my erection whole time
Great. I think this could be one of the most important exercises for me. Managed to maintain the entire ten minute but I really think being able to connect deeply to your body could be a massive solution to this.
Not great at stopping
I’ve always been quite good at edging for very long sessions so this feels just like it. My worry is how to translate this when I’m with a partner
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When I first started, I realised how much I focus on porn when masturbating and not what I like for myself. I found that I could stay hard for the whole ten minutes no problem, and it gave me a chance to really explore how to pleasure myself and to pace myself.
I found myself thinking about my partner and imagining having sex with them, so I could understand how to last longer and not cum too quickly. I also added in the box breath and it helped a lot.
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my problem is not that I come too fast; my problem is that I often can’t come