How do you plan to simmer?

Kiss her passionately when I see her

I plan on being more affectionate and doing more of the little things that make my girlfriend feel loved.

I plan on talking it over with my wife and seeing if she’s into it, and then going from there.

more deep kisses and compliments

I plan on doing all of the options presented here with my partner, ultimately it seems like an exciting strategy and some of that stuff is already being done ocasionally

I feel like this is what I do when I am in a relationship anyway I don’t thin I realised what I was doing, now I’m single though I can work on my solo simmering. I think that it will be fun.

I am single and already think about sex all the time. But I will do it in the next relationship since I lose desire quickly when I am in one.

Will definitely try, along with making time with her to go through the sensate focus exercises.

I need to talk with my wife. She usually isn’t on board with anything that feels forced but is sometimes willing to try.

Although I feel like I have a high libido, the comments about feeling forced to have sex when you’re not in the mood made sense. It then causes you to avoid or feel badly about yourself or sex

I’m single, and have completely lost my libido for months. Going to try this and see if it works

I plan to simmer by replaying fantasies about my partner routinely to build anticipation

More light touching sensory areas

Spanking her butt, touching her lips (clean hands of course), touching the palms of her hands softly, telling her how hot she is.

Definitely will try this. I fear though that it may be perceived as lovebombing. I plan on thinking of something sexy that turns me on and just reminding myself throughout the day to keep myself hot.

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Solo, remembering my favorite hot encounters in my past

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Text more compliments during the day

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Compliments, make sure to hug and kiss them goodbye, cuddling

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Sexting and more playful touching

First I’m going to talk to my girlfriend. We do this occasionally, but it isn’t intentional. Then I will start messaging more often and be flirtatious. I will also make my goodbye’s and hello’s much more passionate.