How do you plan to simmer?

Desirable messages and feeling into my own excitement and longing for my partner

Right now I’m single so I definitely will explore holding onto arousing thoughts that pass through my mind and creating fantasies, whether they are with made up people or memories of past partners.

More specific complements in person and over text

Longer kisses and more touch

Will start with solo. Will try not to spectator while doing it. Don’t want to use it as a diagnostic test to see if I’m capable of getting hard. Then it’s about relief and not pleasure.

Not partnered so I’ll go for the fantasies. And will try to express more my desire with my dates.

Fantasies

I know she loves it, so i am going to make more efforts to gently touch her in public

The longer kisses always work with my wife.

Wearing scents that she likes

First, I’ll tell my partner about and invite her in

Wearing scents and maintaining gentle caresses when the moment is right.

I realized I’m already doing it. And so is she. So this is perfect, comes naturally to us.

Comes natural for us

Longer kisses before work and asking her to touch me more often in a playful kinda way

We do this. My partner keeps my desire for her high. I’m not sure she desires me the same way.

Kissing, messaging, touching

Messaging my girlfriend.

Gonna do everything

Solo simmering for now