Take my guard down and be more consistently affectionate.
I didn’t know that but my wife and I already do that all the time. It helps that we both work from home and can have simmering happening throughout the day
Well definitely give it a go, but im solo so
Send more intimate thoughts throughout the day to the them
Reach out to them with personal thoughts/desires throughout the day.
Share my strong desire with her
Verbally and via text would be good to add to physical touch
Planning to do solo simmering as I am currently single.
Will be doing solo simmering
This is a tough one for me as my wife is open about how she does not feel desire much if at all. I’ve been simmering with her for 20 years and it has never increased her desire. The idea of solo simmering is new though and will definitely give that a go!
I think the way to be sexually strong with my gf is be dominant and do dirty Talk with her, tell her i want to fuck her so bad and be clear with intentions to avoid be shy or struggle to have sex with her because of bad thoughts
Text, kiss more passionately, verbal compliments
Touch, hand on booty, verbal compliment things they like
Touching more
Having proper kisses not just pecks, messaging, complimenting and touching more
More passionate kisses in the morning
More deep eye contact, a playful sexual joke, pointed to them, if the moment comes up, holding he chin when kissing
I love this idea. I am just so worried that I’ll disappoint when I get to the bedroom
Use longer kisses when giving my wife a kiss goodbye before work or when coming home. Try some random playful touching throughout the day if we are both home. Send a flirty / dirty text to build up the anticipation of being together when the kids are sleep (or if we have arranged a date for when kids are at school).
I’ll send desirable messages while I’m at work or even just remind her how attractive she is to me.