When hugging or touching my partner’s body, I think about how alive this person is. That is a body that I can enjoy and is real! Not some porn fantasy that I watched
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It’s beautiful when you feel the warmth of the body and the softness of the skin
It’s becomes so easy to have sex
I’ve started sexting regularly with my partner who is away travelling for 2 months. It helps us build our sexual relationship, build anticipation and get to know each other’s fantasies better.
I did this with my partner for a good month when I discovered simmering. It works. We fell out of habit with it, but this is a good reminder to start it up again
It is something I did a lot before I went through a trauma triggered by certain events, I see now that I have lost it a bit but I am excited to get back to it and maintain it to reclaim the relationship which I know we both want.
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We are both more comfortable with each other, and the temperature has gotten a little cooler. Definitely am excited to try this out!
I realize sexting is an art - and appreciated if done well!
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Like the idea of simmering. Definitely give this a try. Just need to make sure it’s reciprocated.
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This is such low hanging fruit that most of us take for granted and let it pass. Sexual flirting is something most of us start with and let it go over time for some reason. So simple and effective
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So difficult solo.
Willing to try this out but a bit complicated with my current situation
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Wondering if your partner is somewhat avoidant, whether they’ll tend to draw away… definitely should discuss first…
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Love this! My partner and I already do this regularly and I can speak from experience that it definitely works.
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That’s a really thoughtful point, thank you! Is that the sort of relationship you’re in or was it a general reflection?
Sounds like pre foreplay. Like warning up before warning up sexually. I can see how this can keep the sexual desire water warm so there’s not far to get to boiling.
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Isn’t this simmering the same as flirting?
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I am more comfortable with trying solo simmering.
I will definitely try this. I will include my partner but I will also do it solo to keep you the simmering on, also I will be taking my breaks to keep it fresh and to avoid it becoming a chore
I didnt know, but Ive been doing this with my girlfriend recently, and it works wonders. Strongly recommend it
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I don’t feel desired by my wife at all. I naturally simmer with text messages and kisses everyday. But get no retort. She says all the time we have different love languages, mine is touchy/lovey etc hers is she wants me to clean the house 
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