We have started to incorporate foreplay if I need it. Me and my girlfriend just started dating and are experienced in different things. I taught her how I liked to be touch and it really helped us have sex last time.
I don’t often use them but when I do. I try to do it while eating my partner out. That way I can take my time and enjoy the sexual flow of pleasuring my partner while a hand is free to put on the condom or getting hard enough to put one on.
I genuinely love to kiss and that makes me feel comfortable and aroused enough to enjoy sex
I think a main for me is to see her enjoying… when I go down on her, sometimes I get too concentrated in not moving though and it doesn’t happen, but when it happens is because I see her enjoying a lot. If I see her enjoying, and even pleasuring herself, it is a good turn on… for me, weirdly but yes. Another thing, as some of you have said, sexy talk, when I see and I say what I’ll do to her or when she says what she will do to me, and touches (foreplay) with verbal … spicy-ness, it can get exciting. I’ll try it for sure. And I’ll talk to her about this. Kissing helps… a session with her with more than improvised things… massage oil was wonderful, until I got into my head and the anxiety was over the moon (way more than when it wasn’t all “sexy” with the oils and such)… expectations I would guess… but Yep, a good reminder to focus on all the good feelings.
I haven’t figured out how to consistently do this yet. But deep breaths and taking a quick second to refocus sometimes help, though I am not always successful at this.
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My partner says or does something to distract me from getting too in my head or being hyper focused on what needs to happen next. Having her put it on also works sometimes to keep the flow going.
I think I try to keep the flow going by trying to focus on her, her body, her responses, and knowing that I am able to pleasure her. This doesn’t always work though because I am still focused on pleasing her, and not enough on my own pleasure
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involving my gf in the situation and having me touched in places i like
For me it’s having the condom ready and having my partner kiss on me, touch me, and even have her perform direct stimulation on my penis
I like to eat her out and then out the condom on.
I was just with a girl that took the condom in her mouth to put it on. It was a pretty hot way to keep the flow going
I try and take a “make out break” and just get passionately kiss to 1.) keep the mood going and 2.) let me focus on something other than my erection. It doesn’t always work, but those make out interludes have sometimes led to the best endings.
I could be touched more or feel like the intimacy is reciprocated. I enjoy my body being touched, without the goal of an erection just for the sake of it. Caressed, soft touches, kisses upon my body, hands massaging, for the sake of it because I want my partner to desire me too and I feel that best physically.
If i get the feeling im going to lose an erection during foreplay i will quickly jump on top and try having sort of quick sex while im still semi hard to try and keep the feeling ,this works sometimes but im clearly spectatoring the whole thing and my partner definitely feels it .
By nibbling on her nipples and making out. Playing with her body and her playing with mine. Making up a sexy story, focusing on house beautiful she is.
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With physical touch
well i try to talk and laugh about it with my partner, i’m glad she s understanding and we tend to laugh about stuff in bed
Keeping a physical connection going is important. Separation of ourselves physically is never helpful I find for my own performance