getting better almost climaxed 3 times and still hard now
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Not feeling it today… Soft
At first I move up the scale slowly from 0-50% but from 50-95% happens fast. Breathing deeply helped. “Here, now” feeling proud of myself. Never thought I could last 10 minutes.
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Took me a while to get hard and lost my erection a couple of times but it still felt good
Got hard pretty quickly. Almost lasted till the the end (about 7.5 min). Still longer than any session I’ve had so will look forward to increasing duration next time.
Second day in a row that I’ve done e this activity and then it says failed to connect so I might have to do it again tomorrow. I’m not complaining
This is the first time in a while I feel like I was really paying attention. I had a far bit of pre cum and by the time I got to the end of the 10 min without climaxing I lost my erection and couldn’t get it back as if I did climax which was different
Three to four mins for arousal and didn’t come down later for another three four mins
Without porn stimulus I don’t have a hard time not ejaculating. Add porn or a woman and it would be a different story
I would agree. Dry masturbation without visual, can make me last longer
Ya this was fine, but add a woman and the whole dynamic changes I think
I’ve been doing something like this for a while now, although without a specific scale. I don’t find it helps me when I’m with my wife.
This was fun and increased a sense of real pleasure that was far more gratifying. Had a few rounds and really kept refocusing my attention on sensations, not trying to make anything go away, just noticing.
I got there after about 3 minutes, then slowed down, lost a bit of arousal but managed to keep the session going until the end. I built and came back down every 2-3 minutes or so but enjoyed the overall experience
I moved really slow this time, trying to control my breath at the same time as focusing in different sensations rather than the tip of the penis. It all seemed to help keeping me hard as well as not cumming to early!
i lost my arousal which was kinda new for me - since i’m looking to last longer i don’t mind this since i think it wouldn’t be the case with a partner lol
Managed 4 mins without having to stop, which is ok. Then had to stop about 4 times in the next 6 mins, which started my inner critic a bit. I kept at it and got to 10 mins with some box breath and anchoring myself with the senses
Stopping in the middle
I get to a point where I feel like I definitely lose the arousal, which is frustrating because it has happened with Partner before. I think it has a lot more to do with me grounding myself with my senses and with box breath. I got to almost 7 minutes, and at the seven minute mark, I started to lose my erection and my arousal. However, the box breath helped me to get it back, and I did ejaculate about eight minutes. It seems like I can be really dysregulated around sex, sometimes it’s hard for me to orgasm and other times I orgasm too quickly. Having a form of control in being able to ground myself gave me some confidence back though.
I need to stop a little earlier. I keep waiting a little too long then have this half orgasm
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