same boat as many here. i play on cam all the time and minimal issues with performance there usually. but then irl ill get in my head about what the person infront of me must be thinking, how things will all go downhill and ill ruin the moment if i cant get and stay hard. then even if theyre giving me objectively fantastic oral or trying to stimulate me i have palpitations and am a nervous wreck on the inside then im soft or have to get them next to me and just stroke myself to completion and it’s this cycle that repeats.
im on day 1 of this program and looking forward to more. is nice to have a community. do you guys have any short term tips for getting out of your head (ive noted box breathing already)?