Yes I do. Special if it’s the first time or I don’t create a connection with the person. Usually I don’t like to go out only for sex, I feel insecure and on my head I already start thinking that I would have an erection
Even if I’m not with my partner, if I have thoughts about her possibly not being interested in me, or not being excited about being with me, it makes it really difficult to get an erection.
Yes. Not really sure but if I get an erction it not hard enough for penitration.
Yes I.cant get my erection during sex.it make me disappointed
Yes
I can get hard when my girlfriend plays with me or gives me oral but as soon as it’s time to have sex , it goes down. Like performance anxiety . Happened to every girl I’ve been with since my marriage ended. It’s frustrating
I do all the time and I’ll lose whatever erection I have
When I am with a woman I get an erection but then the mind starts to be paranoid about losing erection and not performing well with women. When I was younger I was able to penetrate a woman but never felt pleasure. Then I end up with losing erection. I would like to get erection when I see a nice woman in a picture, I get erection only if I feel physically attracted
Yes. My mind starts wandering and then it’s over
It became more like a problem lately, since I opened my relationship, I feel like an urge that I need to be horny all the time and when I see my body does not always respond I feel anxious. And sometimes I’ve had erection issues just because of thinking of it not working, since the first time it happened to me, I always feel afraid it’ll happen again even though it does not always happen.
It’s frustrating because I know my physical health is ok so there’s no reason for it not to work.
I get so anxious before penetration. I just know its not gonna work, but i also dont feel too much plessure our of sex and blowjobs. I have never ever came during sex and i have never ever experienced the high of an orgasm or anything close to that during sex or a blowjob. I can only get myself off when i jerk myself off. So yes while i think its is psychological, i do think there is an element of something wrong with me not enjoying sex as much as i should. Like ever when i masturbate i really have to think of kinky bdsm related things to be able to get off
Been anxious about sexual activity from when I started at 19. Fine when giving but very difficult receiving, lost erection a lot in first relationship and continue to do so.
Getting better but definitely affects intimacy and my sexual confidence in general.
Almost every single time, I begin to notice that my heart is racing, and that I am extremely nervous and worried about what the other person will think about my performance. Sometimes it stops me from even getting up in the first place, which only said to be down the rabbit hole.
I worry before it even start. My girlfriend has such a big sex drive I fear to let her down with I do.
I feel unattractive and undermine the whole process and think of how disappointing I am.
Yeah I do get anxious and it affects my confidence
I start worrying if I am gonna lose my erection and then I do.
Yes, I lose my erection
It pulls me out of the situation an into my head. It has happened for a very long time but I think it’s getting worse
Yes, I’m always worried I won’t get hard.