I’m worried that I won’t be able to get it up when the mood is right for a long time and it scares me. Eventually I feel my girlfriend may get tired of it and leave or cheat… Porn and masturbation destroyed my confidence terribly
Yes, it makes me want to get it over with and then I lose my erection
I’m 25 and going through the exact same issue. Literally the exact same thing. Never had issues with sex in my life until recently. Broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years and got with someone new 3-4 months after. First time having sex with her I couldn’t get an erection I guess from nerves. Next time with her there were no issues and we had sex multiple times over the next month or so with no issues. Fast forward I meet a new girl who I love. Dream girl if you will. We go to have sex and I can’t get an erection even though im extremely attracted to her. I tried multiple times to no success which is a terrible feeling. Finally one morning I woke up with morning wood and was able to get the job done for the first time (thank god). I still after this had issues with getting hard so I looked to get help. I was put on tadalafil through the app “hims” which has helped me over the last 4 months. Randomly last week I started struggling again and now I’m back to square one. I’m beyond frustrated and just wanna be able to enjoy sex with my dream girl like I was. Im the moments leading up to having sex my mind is consumed with thought on not getting hard. I pleasure her and wait to get hard but it normally never happens. I just want to fix the issue but don’t know how.