I feel Nervous and scared but mostly frustrated
I get in my head and begin worrying about keeping my erection and whether my partner is thinking I’m not into her. Then that’s basically end of anything happening cause I’m there and not present.
Yes, I get anxious as I try to control PE and this can cause a loss of erection. Also, post ejaculation, I can lose my erection, and recently during ejaculations.
probably due to lack of performance and size
It pops from my heart
Yes all the time
I lose my confidence that I can perform and I’m not in the present enjoying the moment
Yes. I worry that my erection will disappear.
It’s a fear of failure mentality. I will avoid trying to have sex because of the embarrassment I might endure
Feel the need to satisfy my partner, before she finds pleasure elsewhere
I try too hard and think about what I’m doing instead of relaxing.
i get anxious thinking that i can’t keep up my erection which is enough to have penetrating sex
A lot of the time now. Prior to COVID, my partner, whilst not entirely routinely (we have relatively low sex drives), we would still enjoy having sex. However there were times when I’d lose my erection when putting on a condom, that feeling still sticks in my mind every time we start fooling around and has often led me to avoid have sex and instead initiating oral.
I had a small erection issue once and I’ve always had a hard good sex life. Being able to have sex anytime but after my penis had just one problem, it got stuck in My head
I feel super nervous and anxious leading up to sex. I think about it all day hoping I can get hard and hoping I don’t disappoint my gf with me not being able to get it up. During foreplay and before that I feel a sensation in my testicles almost as if I get cold feet or I’m scared. I hate it
Coming from a long relationship that fizzled out for a long time, no sex or any intimacy. Always shunned.
I started a new relationship, When it come to intimacy I get excited and ready for it. Then when it’s about to happen I lose it. Really frustrating because I can come so easily at foreplay then when i think it’s go time for sex it it just doesn’t stay.
I’m thinking maybe i need to wait longer?
Yes i start to get in my head alot can’t enjoy it worry about loosing an erection or finishing to soon.
Yes, negatively
Yes. My partner is much younger. It effects me that I don’t feel enough in my penis to stay hard. Sometimes it takes awhile to get hard again
Anxious during foreplay, thinking the longer I do this less time itll stay up.