Yes this is what affects me the most- it gets in my head and then I can’t perform
never used to at all ever. this was the one thing i was extremely good at. then doubted whether she actually felt the same way for me as i do for her because of the lack of communication we had. it progressed from there. to the point were i actually worry about how well i am going to do this time and that i need to do amazing this time
Yes! Ever since my first time. I waited until marriage and that anxiety has been hard yo overcome. Fast forward to 3 kids later the anxiety keeps me from maintaining an election past foreplay
Mostly before sex, particularly with an unfamiliar partner and worse with too much build up or delay. Worse with short term interactions/one off sex and not normally a problem in long term committed relationships. Once started and going mostly good if the interaction is stimulating and free flowing. Mostly trouble getting it hard and then second guessing myself. Less often premature ejaculation.
My biggest issue seems to be just after I put the condom on. I start to worry if it’s on correctly or what if it falls off during sex? What if it doesn’t work and I get my partner pregnant?
A minute or two later my erection has weakened and the sex is ruined. It’s gotten worse recently to the point where I’m hesitant to even reach for the condom as I can already predict what’s going to happen.
Get soft
I feel sad an disappointed
I get inside my head too much.
All the time
Sometimes. If I haven’t taken a pill I get worried I won’t stay hard or be as hard and might cum too soon.
Erectile dysfunction effects me most when I’m concerned about first impressions. The stress of making sure my partner is enjoying themselves takes all pleasure from me and I end up hyper focused on how floppy my dock is getting
It can delay or inhibit erection and it is difficult to reverse
Yes. It makes me feel scared that I will lose my girlfriend and worried I’m ageing
Only the first few times I’m seeing a new girl. ED
I hate waiting! But feel bad when I just want her to jump in bed and get on with it.
I almost always get new partner anxiety during foreplay and have to explain to my partner that I’m feeling anxious and need to slow down (which is totally not sexy!).
Yes. I also question why I sometimes don’t feel the sensitivity of my penis during sex
Uh
I get anxious that the other person is uncomfortable or doesn’t want to be with me. This causes me to lose my erection and also causes more anxiety. Sometime I just feel numb and struggle to feel aroused
I am always anxious before sex. I struggle to get an erection with new partners. It takes time before I get comfortable enough with someone to have one.
Verybad