This is kind of a personal question, but here goes…
I would like to know if simply watching porn or fantasizing without touching your penis would get you closer to cumming (close, but not actually cumming without touching).
I say this b/c before my very first sexual encounter with a girl, I remember I was watching porn throughout the entire evening (didn’t masturbate tho) simply to check whether or not I could get successful erections. However, that night when it was finally game time, I literally came before even getting hard and putting it in. I think I pretty much came while my dick was limp. I think that experience kinda scarred me and made me label myself with premature ejaculation (which definitely didn’t help).
I think I can finally get out of this scar if I can understand and believe long periods arousal or sexual fantasization (like an hour or more) right before sex may lead to early climax or premature ejaculation.
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What usually works for me is letting one loose about 30 mins minimum prior to gametime. Any time less than that, I feel like I’m still out of juice and not ready for the next round.
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