I just wondered whether a flashlight could help with performance anxiety? I can get an erection but the very minute I go to penetrate and it just goes away. I can erect when masturbating so I don’t know if there just isn’t any difference really. Just a thought and wondered if anyone had tried this.
I got a cheaper one through hellocake (great website, products, and price point). It’s been a little helpful getting me to chill and experience the pleasure. I’ve found I get hard, penetrate/play and go soft. It’s kinda an up
And down thing. But it’s helping me pay attention to my pleasure and not worry about cumming or performance or anything else.