Had a wobble last year, got on this app, read “She comes first”. Learnt some techniques. Wife now can’t get enough, amazing sex most days, sometimes morning and evening. More experimental, more fun. Just amazing. If it all stopped tomorrow, I’d die a sexually happy man.
I’ve posted a similar positive post here before with the main things that helped me. But thought I’d share some of the other things that I think spiced things up in a long (very happy) marriage.
Got some saucy prompt cards, these are great to push topic that you might be too scared to ask about.
Got some conversation cards, there’s some great ones out there specifically for couple that have been together for a long time, with questions you’ve never thought about.
Very high quality massage oil, and learning how to use it, we now both enjoy massage so much. Even if it doesn’t lead to sex, it’s so enjoyable and connecting.
Roll play, I decided I would pretend I was a horny message guy and spoke to my wife like she was a sexy client, she loved it and we had a great laugh after.
Tried some feathers, ice and play whip, something we’d never done before, nothing serious, just made it fun and it was and is an enjoyable option.
Surprised wife with a good quality vibrating cock ring, to my surprise, I really enjoyed it and she’s really got off on the fact I was being kinky.
Just some things that worked for me, enjoy, have fun 