I really want to discus it freely, but it’s always difficult. I’m constantly worried about how my partner is feeling, and vice versa for her and my feelings, but having a constructive conversation is a big hurdle.
I’m single and i don’t know if I’ll be able to discuss it, but i will try
I’m worried talking about this will put my date off and not think she’s attractive.
I have no problem discussing this. They usually understand in my experience. I just do other things to get them off. I don’t make it a big deal and neither do they.
I am ok discussing it when I am comfort with the person as I feel it takes the pressure off me a bit, but it can be difficult the first time I’m with someone the first time after just a few dates
I’m open to it
I feel open to doing it and don’t struggle with it
Very nervous until recently - I’mvery happily married, have a child together and can share most things but didn’t feel confident to discuss this until recently. It felt really liberating
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This is a long one folks—
We’ve discussed it before but I’ve also struggled with libido the past couple years and have enjoyed masterbation over interviews.
I don’t think it was until right now that I realized that it’s very likely because I don’t look as forward to the reminder that I don’t last long with a partner and that’s not crossing my mind when I’m masterbating. I think having this specific conversation with her will help with libido as well as experimenting with the practice it takes in the bedroom to last longer.
Intercourse not interviews my apologies haha
It feels liberating!!
I feel comfortable talking about it. I make sure I tell her it’s not because of my attraction to her, but something in my head/body. But I’ve then gotten “Is there something I can do?” and I don’t have an answer for that.
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Feel great with my primary partner, but I’m excited to have this conversation with a secondary partner and build a new level of trust.
It’s nerve wrecking a bit because it feels like strike against my man hood. But seeing a lot of others struggling makes it easier to talk about.
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I think it’s be difficult for me with a one night stand partner and easier with my regular sex partner
It’s hard at first but it does lead to more open conversations.
My partner and I already chatted in the moment and take breaks when needed if I’m getting anxious
Very difficult to convince my wife that it’s not about her. She feels less beautiful if I cant perform. Then I find myself owning that even though her response is outside my control, and that leads to a vicious cycle. What helps is if I stay cool if things don’t go perfectly. If I go to a dark place then I’m sure to take her with me.
I’m 100% for it. You have to be honest
I’m still a little getting use to being vulnerable about it with my partners but they are very understanding and accommodating and it real helps
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