That no erection means I’m not turned on, and thus a failure
If I watchbporn I don’t find ym girlfriend attractive.
Early climax
The need to get hard on command or just immediately whenever things start to heat up
That I have to get hard soon, penetrate my partner cause if there’s penetration, it’s not sex.
I struggle with the thought that I should be able to pound hard for a long time during sex and not cum too soon
That I have to always be ready for sex, physically in terms of having an instant erection and psychologically in terms of switching into sex mode whenever the opportunity presents itself.
- Need to always be ready to go and be hard instantly 2. It’s failure without PIV or orgasm
As a man, I should be able to get hard erections quickly as soon as my partner and I start getting it on.
I need to always be hard. I need to cum. I need to penetrate. My partner and I both have to look good
I have to perform well and long enough until I make her cum
That I have to be hard all the time to show that I’m enjoying things.
None at the moment…thanks to the learning sessions
That desire equals erection
I have to last at least 30 minutes of constantly pumping, and stay hard all the time
That I need to get hard instantly
That an orgasm is the ultimate goal of sex
Same, that i must be hard when the time comes… I am working that on the logic exercise.
That i should have an erection instantly as a sign of desire
If I’ve been using porn a lot I feel like it’s harder for me to get hard. I guess that’s the combo of the visual stimulus, the extra anxiety involved with partnered sex, and maybe my masturbation death grip.