My GF’s priorities jump in when we’re together an she would stop our conversation mid sentence an focus on her priorities making me feel disposable.
Inner conflicts. Self confidence issues. Learning not to live in the future of what ifs.
I had a good ear, but my wife didn’t think I was listening. Using the words she was sharing and repeating those back has really helped convince her I am listening and am emotionally showing up.
When I am triggered by jealousy or a mood
How i feel inside
Not with holding emotions and trying to pack it down
I need to open up more and not let anger take over me
I hate confrontation but can also be quite passive aggressive. I could do with working on expressing my feelings more eloquently.
Being more open it my needs
Expressing my feelings is difficult. I need to take my time and stay calm and know everything is going to be alright
Every conflict when I am trying to reflect any emotions from the partner
Not writing other people off and second guessing them
I need to work on being willing to express myself more and stop bottling things up
I need to work on address conflicts sooner and not avoiding it
Stop hiding feelings
No getting anxiety and not becoming reactive or defensive. When I don’t get what I want from a woman.
Being calm ending a concersation relationsp with people who can’texprese their needs or pause when I can’t exprs my own
I just want to be more calm
So much. I need to work on being more open and humble and empathetic and kind. I also need to takeility responsi
Need to not react when I feel my wife is criticizing me, when she may simply be pointing out things that frustrate her. Sometimes I assume she’s passive-aggressively having a go at me for not doing something when really she’s just bothered that no one did it, maybe for good reason.