A voice saying a bunch of “What if’s” and then a future version of myself pops up not being able to get it up or stay hard
No visual but a bunch of what if thoughts pop into my head about something going wrong. It also feels like I just immediately start to assume that something will go wrong
Negative thoughts that presume something is going to go wrong. There’s a desperation for wanting the other person you care about to be satisfied and not let them down
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It’s a critical me
Stuck in my head about not getting up
Negative thoughts about something going wrong
Bad thoughts
That is a great description of my own thoughts and inner critic
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It’s me critisising me and I don’t knkw why this voice is so harsh
It is my voice, or me, but the lowest self esteem version of me. Very pessimistic
Intrusive thoughts about not being able to perform
Doubting voice rssulting in a faster heartbeat
Someone failing to please a woman
Me telling myself what will happen if I can’t get hard.
Not being able to perform, critic is telling me that will be the problem
not being able to stay hard and she doesn’t feel me inside
Not being able to stay hard and her not being wet enough
Looks like my ex
Concern that things won’t work. I’ll get hard but lose it quickly
it’s myself or maybe a woman I had sex and had trouble in the bed room with. it’s not a sound of super negative self talk but more fear and disappointment of performance. and not being able fulfill needs.