What does your inner critic sound like? (Part 4)

It is just me taking to myself, I hear my inner voice as my own.

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A split persona

It’s just a pessimistic asshole. It says it’s over before it begins. You can’t do this. You’re not gonna get hard. You’re not attracted enough. Etc.

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It’s just me, but one who dwells too much on the experiences of the past and is unhappy rather than a me who is excited at what is going to happen.

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It said you are still childish. You aren’t a fully sexual man, who exudes confidence with her/ him.
They won’t like you if you can’t have sex.

My inner critic is an uptight version of me in a suit.

It’s a dark version of me who has throughout my adult life convinced me that you need to have a 7+ inch penis to penetrate otherwise they won’t feel it and it has made me feel inadequate

A bad version of myself that haunts me and controls any good, calming or relaxing moment in my life to make me overthink everything

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A feeling that already knows the other person will be disappointed again. Like knowing that I shouldn’t try because the outset is always determined.

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It doesn’t look like anything, and there’s no voice as such.

If it’s anything, it’s fear and the need to protect myself from being found out. I’ll often delay encounters because I think that if I can just have another couple of weeks or even months to get myself sorted out, I’ll do better.

An ugly little man. Eager to belittle. An asshole

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Not being able to perform

My inner critic is just myself. And after reading the comments of other people’s inner critics, I realise that actually, I’m not that hard on myself

My inner critic is really just a feeling. It’s the possibility of disappointing others - that is what shuts everything down

Its just myself. I don’t think my mind has ever put an image to it, I think the thoughts are so frequent I just see it as me.

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At first the my inner critic is other people but they end up influencing my thoights and decisions and it just becomes myself, alone.

Its not a face but an inverted version of myself that lacks confidence and overthinks every single action I’m taking. Sex has become a threat as I’ve struggled in the bed room for a year and a half.

It’s just a voice….and it always begins with “what if” if it doesn’t work, “what if” there is a problem. And as soon as it enters the brain it becomes quite overwhelming

It’s a thought, a mental picture of failure.

Seems like a negative version of myself. The low self confidence and insecure version of me.