Just want to learn more about bdsm how to get more involved with it and better my skills and knowledge with it
I want to watch porn with a variety of different body types. I want to focus on physical sensations more than just what I see. Porn should not be the stimulus for my arousal but a means to explore it.
I want to watch less porn, as I use it a lot to procrastinate and I believe it affects my erections with my wife.
I want to work on creating a healthier mentality towards porn and understand that it’s not a root cause of my problems
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It’s not healthy and If it was a part of my life before , I do not want to have it anymore at least for now
I want to change the way I think about how porn gets to the climax for the male. It’s very cut-and-paste, or doesn’t always show the buildup for the guy. Rather focused on the girl, which may be faked. I want to find how I can build up to my own climax/orgasm.
I want to porn to feel more like time I’m giving myself to enjoy pleasure. I want to feel like it was time well-spent when I cum, and to feel proud that I’ve embraced my sexual side for a little bit. Like I deserved that time.
I have pretty much stopped watching porn now over the past few years after the realisation I was overdoing it (every day). Occasional, I’ll still use it for a quick fix. Over the same period of time, I’ve seen my sex drive go down, I’m not sure if the two things are connected. I have a new girlfriend, we’ve been sleeping together for almost 3 months and I’m still finding it hard to cum with her. We,ve had sex on average a couple of times a week over that time, she cums, but ive only cum once. She’s open to watching porn together but I feel it may be more of a distraction than anything else. Could be an option to heighten our arousal before sex maybe, get me closer to the finish line!
Solo no quiero sentir culpa por hacerlo, quiero que sea algo que hago por gusto en un tiempo en especifico, pero me siento muy culpable porque tengo novia, y solo quiero dejar de sentir la culpa
Using it less and relying on my own thoughts to get aroused
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I’ve reduced porn use a LOT, but still the rare occasion I only watch trans porn, and that sometimes leads to videos I’m not always sure if I really enjoy or if it’s the taboo that keeps me watching. So I’d like to broaden my fantasies
I think it’s to alleviate symptoms of depression. I need to find the cause of the depression rather than mask it
I think just using it less so it’s less of a habit
I want to watch less porn. I don’t want to watch porn when I’m bored or nothing to do. I want to use it as a formal of pleasure. But also want to learn to use visuals in my head to cum to rather than just porn
I’ve used porn to deal with anxiety
My porn use has fuelled my particular fetish and made me a bit one dimensional in the bedroom. I’d like to be less focused on one thing and enjoy the overall experience more.
Just would like to not use it everything I masterbate.
Be able to masturbate without it.
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Want to stop watching it to get aroused
Definitely use it when I want to have sex but I don’t want to go through an awkward moment of not being able to get hard or cum too quick and I also use it when I’m bored