What did you learn about your inner coach?

For some reason, my inner coach is a female. But somehow, she sounds more supportive and calming than a male voice.

My inner coach is me but with a baseball cap on.

I found it hard to imagine my inner coach as anything other than a rational version of me

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I will focus on staying positive, because things will not improve otherwise.

It can help to banish my inner critic

Inner coach was radiant and strong, soft and calm. Supportive and a block to the critic

Inner coach is something I should focus on every time inner critic knocks on my door.

I’m looking forward to getting to know my inner coach very well going forward.

My inner coach is strong and confident, but also warm and supportive. He reminds me of what’s truly important.

It felt good to have him with me. He gently bit also firmly reminds me to let the negative thoughts go and to focus on what is truly important.

It felt supportive and good to have him there chasing away negativity and lending support.

Reminds me of my successes and supports me without judging

My inner coach doesn’t blow situations out of proportion and makes me realise that sex doesn’t have to be a serious high pressure situation. Just have fun and not every time will be a success and that’s OK.

My inner coach chases away the anxiety and negativity about being able to stay hard and keeps me more fixated to enjoying the moment without worry.

I like how the inner coach is a more positive influence to remind me to focus on the present rather than avoiding repeating past experiences

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My coach is there to remind me about positivity,how it’s ok to feel good. To enjoy and be myself

Strong and powerful

I have a similar experience, that it is somehow not ok to feel pleasure. Or that i am not entitled to it or worthy of it.

I learned that my inner critic expresses more through physical sensation, rather than words or emotion. Or maybe the emotions are expressed in physical sensation. Either way, I have a long way to go.

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My inner coach will encourage and affirm my worthiness to experience the pleasure.