Wet Dreams and Masturbation Urge

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Im dating someone, but my gf doesnt live with me and she isnt the most sexually forthgoing person. I dont pressure with sex cause also I dont always want to have sex too.
I noticed I have had a wet dream while sleeping next to her and then I tried to have sex shortly after and couldn’t finish.
I had another wet dream again and Im like wow what’s going on. Should I still incorporate solo masturbation in the absence of us together having sex? Or should I fight the urge and only have penetrative sex? Im 33 and haven’t had a lot of sex in my life, so im still finding my sexual confidence.

Is it bad strange to have wet dreams at this age and should I continue my self pleasures and shouldn’t limit just because I have a girlfriend?

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Hey brother, there may be no right answer to your questions other than what feels best for you and your partner. But as a single 31 year old that had a wet dream last night, I’d say don’t worry about them and enjoy your solo masturbation as a way to experience the pleasure of your body by yourself. While also being aware of the traps of porn and frequent ejaculation. Enjoy yourself :slight_smile: