When during sex if something happens that takes me out of it, ill lose my erection.
I usually don’t get anxious before foreplay. Once the foreplay starts and I anticipate it will probably lead to sex, then I start worrying about whether or not I’ll be able to keep and maintain an erection. And while I might have an erection during foreplay, it usually doesn’t last long. And if it does last, I’ll often lose it when I get into a position for sex. It’s like my body just gives up, even when I am totally attracted to the woman.
The lead up to sex, wondering if it’s going to perform or not. Sometimes I just don’t get it in the first place, I kind of have to hope and see. It can be heartbreaking sometimes
My partner is male and likes the initial penetration to be slow to allow him to relax. Unfortunately this often causes me to lose my erection similar to the condom example.
I never get that hard from kissing and grinding unless it really feels like I’m doing something kinky. Normal sex with a partner I like just isn’t that and so when I am not in this porny mood my dick just doesn’t cooperate.
The first time with a new partner is so stressful. Kind of like I just want to get it over with so that I can breathe again
Each time she is on top after a few minutes I always loose the election, I don’t know why
Not wanting to disappoint but doings exactly that
I have attractive girlfriend who only been seeing a month I’ve done nothing but let her down every fucking time ,I’ve never had this issue before
Transition from foreplay to sex. This is where I have lost an erection before because I go into my head. It’s where I then worry I’d lose it and in thrn, I then do
Recently Everytime My partner starts to get sexual the spectator ship begins in my head. If she doesn’t just start touching me during foreplay I’ll be not in the moment and be touching myself checking if I’m hard.
First one is putting on a condom. The pressure of putting it on, because the girl is waiting for me. I also fear she may change her mind, even though it is irrational.
Next one is putting it in.
When I ask her to take off her pyjama pants then I feel the pressure is on for intercourses a d it goes pearshaped
Just the anxiety of not being able to get an erection. No specific situation
as soon as I start making out with a girl, I begin spectating. I’ve always had trouble getting erections, and it originally started from overusing porn, but I have been porn free for a few months now and the problem keeps occurring. I believe the psychological issue comes from NEVER having fully performed when I’m with a woman
I definitely find putting on a condom acts as a trigger situation. From past experiences, ive built up the idea in my head that i just cant do it.
I would say that the thought of penetration really gets me up in my head. Foreplay can be going great, but then the moment we switch to intercourse, I either go soft or feel like I need to ejaculate almost immediately.
Moving from the sofa to the bedroom.
Whenever I feel like I’m about to stimulate my partner I feel like it kills it right away. And from there she notices them I get embarrassed after that then it’s game over.
Changing positions