I find myself at the two extremes for erections. There can be months during which I do not have erections at all, except when I am masturbating. But when I meet someone I really like the situation kind of get the opposite. in the sense that in her company I am hard for very long times even in non-sexual life. on the one hand it is a very good signal when I meet someone I really like. on the other hand, I rarely meet someone I really like. I would like to get somewhere in the middle and enjoy erections more casually… any similar experience or advice?