More positive messaging, a longer kiss away from trying to lead to the bedroom.
Solo simmering for now
longer kiss and cuddli g
Grab his butt when he’s getting dressed in the morning when I see him in his tidy Whiteys or when I get home from the gym strip down to my jockstrap and walk around like that for a little bit, give him a lot to look at
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All of the above
Kinda solo simmering, met a girl at school but we both left for home. Texting and snapping her so I’ll try to flirt here and there.
Telling her over text that I’m excited to see her, being more mindful of touch when we kiss goodbye
Solo summer but eye contact, revealing clothes, the words I say and the energy behind it. Solo summer by sexual fantasies
Tell her I can’t wait to see her, a long kiss before work and keep momentum while at work
Think of her body and what i like
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Not just more touching. But more deliberate touching. Like holding her face when we kiss. Not just a touch for touching sake. But more meaningful and connected.
Solo right now. But I will not shun out sexual thoughts I have but rather explore them
More touching
My GF and I see each other every other week. When I see her I first like to connect with her
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Single rn too but I’d definitely focus more in on sexual thoughts
We already do simmering, most of the time it has a great response for me. But the last couple of days after a very stressful event on the weekend, its not having any effect on me. Before Id be stuck at my desk from being hard, now zilch.
Working on the same brother. A new girlfriend and we can really only see each other fortnightly at the moment. Well we’ve only met twice now but then talk for hours every night.
What things work for you with distance or limited time?
Unfortunately simmering with my wife is off the table
I will simmer about touching, the warmth of a womans body, the smile and the shy look in their eyes when they desire you
My partner and I are long distance so simmering kind of happens a lot. We send lots of messages and “invisible ink” pics.
Yikes. Your wife won’t even flirt with you?