How do you plan to simmer?

[experienced-red-silkworm]

From time to time she lets it out but theres no intimacy , no touch
We are pretty much just fucking
At least there’s that

[identical-plum-slug]

Getting to know someone new right now, I plan on simmer making eye contact and light touches when I see her next

[superior-salmon-pig]

I think I already do a lot of that in person, maybe just needs to get him to do it a bit more. And I think especially erotic messages over the week when we’re apart is something we need to do. That would help keeping the fire on.

[effective-aquamarine-xerinae]

Eye contact

[spare-violet-mandrill]

I only see my girlfriend once a week unfortunately, so I will be simmering by sending messages to her and kissing her passionately and grabbing my favorite body parts of her when I do see her.

[developed-tan-limpet]

I realised I had shut my turn-ons off when I’d lost confidence in my ability to date and pick up women.
Now my libido feels alive again!

[tired-peach-horse]

More deliberate contact. And being naked around my wife more - like I used to. Plus just messaging I can’t wait to see her.

[surrounding-brown-goldfish]

Telling her how much joy she brings and by looking and touching her curves

[rare-salmon-bedbug]

Looking deep into her eyes and holding the gaze

[overall-plum-capybara]

I do this a lot and she does in return. I’m not sure what I’m going to change.

[sweet-salmon-gamefowl]

More solo fantasies about partner

[magnetic-maroon-impala]

More deliberate touching and complimenting. More work on communicating my thoughts and desires directly to her.

[quaint-lavender-turtle]

More solo simmering and better communication with my partner

[reluctant-amber-bobcat]

I’ve been doing this already, solo. Trouble is if I haven’t got an outlet or leads to porn

[rural-silver-toucan]

I find I naturally do this with some people and it definitely adds to the sexual tension in a good way.

[intelligent-aqua-perch]

We already do some of this (long kiss goodbye, texts about excitement to see each other) but others have dried up (flirtier texts, being naked in a non-sexual context), so I want to reintroduce those elements that have felt less in my comfort zone

[scattered-copper-lemming]

I think my wife does things like this unknowingly

[steady-indigo-catfish]

This is a good idea. I will have to try it.

[incredible-ivory-tiglon]

I think the passionate kiss, avoiding the pecks. I think we have too much nonchalance in our touching. Numbs that feeling.

[fancy-green-ox]

Simply by putting them first at the start