My problem is in the initial stages of a relationship rather than in maintaining one and I did this often to build up and eventually lead to sex.
It’s good to have a name for it though, and should help to be more conscious of it as well.
Sexting
Texting and FaceTiming with compliments kissing my partner gently across her beautiful face touching her arms and chest
How supportive. Has she considered that mindset may be causing the issues somewhat?
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I’m single, so put effort into fantasizing like was explained, and try and pay more attention to attractive features of girls I encounter socially while still being respectful.
I’m currently in the initial stages of dating with a girl. We already had sex, but we are not in a relationship, we will start easy with messages and more contact and compliments when we will be together, then will see where we will be
Been married 26 years. My wife still has no idea what turns me on and wouldn’t do those things even if she did because she still believes men are just ready to go at all times.
Texting
Texts, phone calls, kisses, touch, anticipation
Definitely texting. Lack of simmering was definitely a problem in my last relationship, if I’d seen this then I would have made an effort to send things that are not just sweet but also a bit sexual
Have found lingering kisses more than 8 seconds really help as well as neck kisses and gentle back touching before my partner departs. Texts with innuendo in the mornings. Flirting should probably never stop but the novelty wears off for women in long term relationships and they don’t buy in.
But i think you need to mix it up. Otherwise it the effect is lessened over time.
Plan on texting, playing, massaging casually as well as complementing
I can hopefully introduce this with my partner as our intimate life has kind of disappeared. This might be a good test to see if we can build up the sexuality back
I wish I knew this before my last relationship I might still be with them
Listening to the notes, I feel like me and my partner do these things but maybe we try implementing more things into our day to day
I don’t have anyone
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By myself I guess
My libido is basically zero. I’m alone and I can’t usually get turned on by fantasizing.
It seems like a good way to break the ice between us. But it needs to be paired with success in the bedroom for her to be receptive to it.
I suppose when people ask me why my relationship with my wife is so successful, this is why. I already do these things. Just seems natural to express my interest in her and show her that she’s wanted.