I used to and then I had to stop cold turkey
Porn impacts how I feel about my penis size. It also made me place a lot of pressure on sex the first time, which after not getting an erection had a knock on effect. I was also able to overcome my erection issues somewhat by stopping watching porn.
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That I should be ready to have sex at a momentās notice.
That I should have a large penis and know exactly what to do with it
That vaginal intercourse should make a woman orgasm every time
Yes I have compared myself, to that. Taught me to expect to last long, make her cum like crazy, fuck like a monster, make her feel amazing
Iāve always treated it as a fantasy and never really let unrealistic expectations effect me. I think, especially when I was younger, it was easier to watch porn and masterbate than go find a partner.
Porn is usually well edited so that youāre always seeing the best angle and the best bits. When Iām having sex, I tend to lost my erection during the transitionary parts or the parts that would generally be cut out from the edit in porn.
I definitely have struggled comparing the sex I have to porn I watch. Lasting longer, trying to please my partner every time. I even feel like Iāve havenāt pursued interesting and attractive women in the past, that found me interesting and attractive, because my use of porn, among other factors, made me have high expectations in potential sex partners
no
None.
I only started watching porn pretty late into adulthood, in my mid 20s, so Iād already had plenty of sex education and some sex with partners. I wouldnāt say porn has taught me any expectations or insecurities, because I know the people are acting, but I wonder if it āprogramsā my brain to respond to that visual stimuli.
Higher than realistic standards for actual sex
that i always have to have a strong erection
I rarely use porn to masterbate, but when I do I sometimes find myself thinking āi want my partner to moan like thisā or āI want to be going this hard for this longā and it really gets in my head a bit.
To be honest, I was more feeling shame when masturbating in general. It wasnāt porn related depression but when masturbating Iād notice my penis doesnāt feel like what it used to, nor does it look like what it did when erect which was completely firm almost as though like a bone. This is what made me depressed
Not really. The porn I watch doesnāt actually involve penetration which is something that made me thinkā¦
Iām in a similar situation. My last marriage was, for the last several years, asexual, no sex, whatsoever. This led me to the porn sites, and masturbation, to sublimate my urges. As is typical, with that scenario, I found that, I was spending more time, looking for more specific portrayals, and building a tolerance, making it more difficult to even attain an erection, to the point where I donāt get hard, at all. I havenāt had intercourse in several years. I recently began a "friends with benefits " relationship, and havenāt been able to have intercourse, yet. The frustration is nearly unbearable, because I want to satisfy her, completely, but I canātā¦
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Yeah for sure. Watching women get hammered with massive dicks makes me feel inadequate
My performance was always compared to porn. I wanted to be the perfect lower who fan satisfy any women. And after growing up with porn from my early teenager years I realized I donāt have any sexual skill. When I finally found myself with someone initimate there were not the same feeling like what I see in porn and the sex become a nightmare. Interactions with womens were scary. I constantly were thinking from the very first moment: how we are going to have sex If i cannot get hard in the momemnt.
Yes, Iāve compared myself, my partner and my relations many times with porn.
To always be ready and hard and to please my partner in such an intense way, if not, I failed as a lover.