I tried directed masturbation twice now and neither times got me aroused or hard. Is this normal? Will it eventually begin to work? Or is that not the point of the excercise?
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This is normal, I think. Or at least the same has happened to me.
I’ve had the same experience most of the time. I still think it’s useful to just really consider touch beyond stroking yourself. It’s made me notice I’ve been lazy with arousal.