I have ‘shared’ previous partners and enjoyed the thrill. I don’t think it is connected to my current ED
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Since contributing last year, my wife has started (twice) sleeping with an ex. It has given us some relief from the ED, really quite exciting for both of us - in fact I am sure for him as well.
No humiliation or especially kinky. She met up twice in a hotel when he was working near us - my suggestion. He is hoping to stay at ours when I am away and she will stay at his when she is visiting friends in their hometown soon.
He is single at the moment, but when that changes we need to think of a plan B
It’s a no from me. In fact, the idea makes me feel a bit sick, I need my partner to love me. If she’s ok with fucking someone else, she neither loves or respects me. That’s how I feel, appreciate that’s not how everyone feels.
I don’t think it’s a fantasy at all, it’s mostly a form of self punishment, and comes from our own inability to accept our shortcomings. We want the ones closest to us to “punish” us with willing infidelity, and we feel like we ought to be the ones to enable this. I think it’s a zero sum game, even if you claim to enjoy it, at the end you find yourself miserable.
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Absolutely that is your opinion and that of many. This is something we chose to try and it seems to have worked. Most of all it is fun. No regrets.
Good luck