Couldn't get it on

🍆 Erection issues
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Hey everyone, just reached out.

So me and my girlfriend were getting it on during date night. And when it came to doing the thing, my erection was up and down up and down up and down. I couldn’t keep it up or keep it firm. I thought something was wrong with me.

Then that left the end of the night really awkward for the both of us. She felt bad about asking me to do it even though I didn’t want to but changed my mind, and I felt terrible because I couldn’t perform.

This has happened to me in the past with my ex where I was about to do the thing but there were times I couldn’t get it up. I always thought maybe there was something wrong with me.

Yes I do masturbate but I never told my ex or my new girlfriend about it.

So after that awkward night with my girlfriend I thought there might be something wrong with me. So I joined this app today. Been feeling down and trying to keep myself busy to distract myself.

My girlfriend felt bad and I told her she shouldn’t feel bad.

And there you have it folks.

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Welcome man !! This happens to a lot of us - but there is hope !! Be kind to yourself abd hibest with your girlfriends! Good luck brother

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The app helps. This is largely in our head and you just need to navigate that.

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Welcome man!!
First- most of us have a very similar story as you!
Solo works with/without pills. I use a silicone ring.
Still couldn’t make the transition from head/foreplay to the deed without losing it….
This app, reading these topics, the lessons & commentary have helped me I’d and start to repair the habits I’d formed over the last 20+ years that were sabotaging my sexlife!
I’m not fixed, but I’m seeing progress and that’s a very good feeling!

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You are in the right place, and with chaps who have often been in your position… me included…
Trust the app, and the teaching/ learning…
Good luck sir.