I never have a problem getting an election when I’m with my wife or when masturbating, but often when I’m in a group setting, ie orgy, sex party or group sex I just don’t “show up”.
I feel like I don’t deserve to be there. I feel small and inadequate like I’m just a spectator.
Same here. I get all in my head as that’s the time when I definitely need it to show up
Similar for me, but seems to happen whenever people other than my partner are there (in a group with my partner, or when I’m playing just with someone else)
Sucks you all are experiencing the same issue, but admittedly it’s good to know I’m not the only one.
Any of you had any success breaking through?
Group sex is my go to fantasy - but not my reality 