Answer the 4Ds and share how you’re going to get the bond you want

Working together to build a healthy connection

I look forward to having a lifelong partner where we can share exciting experiences together, travelling the world and eventually starting a family together.

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Discovery: The best parts of relationships are spending quality time together doing activities we both enjoy, being honest with each other, making each other laugh, and communicating our desires and needs openly.

To get there, I would do just that: communicate my desires and needs with potential partners and seek partners who desire the same.

The love, communication and honesty.
Take time for each other and listen.
Just continued focus.
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Best part is trust, respecting each other’s emotional safety, and talking regularly.

Trying to get to a space where this extends to sex, and it can be easy and natural without the hangups we currently have.

Support includes meds, this app, other resources

I think the companionship in sharing experience is the best part of any relationship.

In the near future I hope to meet women that are inspiring to me, who I vibe with, are on the same page as far as expectations and we enjoy each others company.

I am already dedicated to self improvement and believe that striving for the next level of yourself leads to good things. Also by being honest with myself and owning my sexual being, I can be open with women about my interest in them. Just keep putting myself out there as honestly as I can.

discovery: humour, shared interests, good communication
dream: settle and move in, good sex, build our future
design: need to treat mental issues to succeed better at work and in the bedroom
destiny: therapy, communication and support from friends and family

Discovery: Humour, sexual connection and intimacy, good conversation.
Dream: Travel around together, try new exciting things, strong sex life, kids.
Design: Work on own wellbeing, be confident in myself through all walks of life.
Destiny: Work on myself most days. Dont be scared of what might happen. be a doer not a sayer.

Discovery: I want a relationship where I feel connected to an intellectual and sexual partner.
Dream: I want to feel inspired and encouraged by this partner.
Design: I need to invest in my self to be more grounded in my identity.
Destiny: I can commit to that by keeping my goals in mind.

Discovery: free time together, traveling, raising our kids and home projects

Dream: strong communication, passionate sex life, traveling, kids

Design: improve communication, more free time without distraction, dedicating time to sex, planning trips with kids

Destiny: be my best self, communicate and make plan together, be kind and calm

Discovery: Having someone of the opposite sex to turn to to tell them anything I want, free of judgement

Dream: To get so comfortable with a female that the sex just comes naturally, and build an intimate relationship from there.

Design: I need to do my MOJO homework everyday and put to use what I learn, do mindfulness meditations, and continue reading my book on unwanted intrusive thoughts and how to conquer them.

Destiny: Having someone to hold me accountable might do me justice. Other people can only help so much tho. It all really boils down to how much I want to get better and how quickly do I want to see progress

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Discovery: I want to be closer to my girlfriend I want to make our relationship stronger and get married I want to be there for her and her for me.
Dream: I want to travel and spend more time together.

Design: I plan to communicate more and pay more attention to my girlfriend and the things I avoid that put a wall up to avoid.

Destiny: I plan to stop burying my head in the sand and ignoring the issues that harm our relationship. I am not going to just buckle down and deal with things it instead confront them head on to improve our quality of life and our relationship.

Discovery: I love that we are so clos and physical oth each other. Recently we have been opening up t each other and talking about things openly. She does things sometimes specifically says mean things but sha quick to realised and say sorry and has told me she’sworking on it and i can see that she is. I lvoe that we are both making an effort.

Dream: I want to be with her for long term and maintain our spark. Obv want to have sex whenever she pleases and whenever i want to.

Design: Openly communicating and not going quiet and bringing issues to our attention. Neither of us or wrong each of our opinions are valid.

Destiny: Just talk and be willing and open to her requests and ideas. Give into bids. Talk to her when yo are nervou or feeling anxious. It’s okay to ask and give reassurance.

Also need to COMMIT YO MOJO. is helping but everytime i stop it goes back to being back. JUST DO IT SET REMINDERS DAWG

Discovery: The best part of our relationship is how well we communicate and also that we’re very good friends, we actually enjoy a lot each other company and have lots of fun

Dream: The best future I can think of with my partner is us living a simple life full of peace and harmony, raising 1 or 2 kids and our dogs. Having independent professional careers where can manage our time and have valuable time to enjoy ourselves, hopefully being able to travel a lot. Obviously a crucial piece for this kind of life would for me to first figure out this issue that I’m having and that brings me here

Design: To start I need to dedicate way more time and energy to fixing my issue through meditation, these exercises, psychologist and so on. However, at the same time I also think that I need to focus less on myself and dedicate more attention to my partner, family, friends, strangers in need, etc. I think that could help me get out of my head a bit. Besides that, I need to figure out some issues with my professional life

Destiny: I believe that most of the solutions for my current issues that are limiting that future, is in me to solve them by being way more mindful, connecting more with my inner self, communicating with my body and of course working with a professional. I’m currently immersed in a very deep and toxic cycle with multiple psychological issues that I need to figure out first in order to accomplish that future that I’m craving for

I just want to not be alone but I don’t know how to do it

I want to feel safe but I always women are ready to stab you in the back

D1: Being intimate together. Enjoying each others company.

D2: A fulfilliing relationship. Feeling loved and cared for.

D3: I need to date? Idk.

D4: I can commit more to hinge, but I would rather meet someone at a rave.

D1: The way we laugh and our intimacy

D2: To continue to be intimate without my current ED issues

D3: I need to be more in the moment when it comes to sex and not self sabotage

D4: I need support like this app. Or maybe a therapist

D1: Intimacy and affection, having someone to share life and experiences with, quiet moments of peace together.

D2: A relationship where we both care deeply about each other and want to make room in each other’s lives for each other while maintaining our own independence. A relationship where we enjoy finding ways to make each other happy.

D3: Be open to people I meet and be confident enough to ask people out if I find them attractive. Potentially try dating apps again. Communicate what I want from a relationship early on when dating.

D4: Find as many opportunities to meet new people as I can, lean into the things that really matter to me. Work on myself but don’t be afraid to ask for support or advice when I might need it. Also Mojo obvs.