dricus du plessis - has extreme composure in the face of doubt and ultimate self confidence, yet still super humble and funny
My friend who is very open about his sexuality and my other friend who lives life on his own terms
I admire any man who has the confidence to admit what he doesn’t know, what he can’t do, what he lacks, what he has failed at, what he is scared of, what he wants and needs.
A colleague who makes life seem so easy, very efficient at work but a very good colleague, being everyone else’s cheerleader, helping you develop and improve as well as being very laid back and a good bloke socially.
a friend for his girm leadership of his family
Joe Rogan. PBD. Elon.
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They see nuance in life. They can be both firm and strong, as well as soft. Not putting on a show, though. It just happens. They know themselves deeply and are passionate about the things that interest them, whatever the hell it is.
I admire one of my close friends, we some times have talked about sex and he just seems to love it and simply haves fun with it, he explores his dominant side and he has even told me times where he wasnt performing too well and I felt so conected when I heard I wasnt the only one, I admire him because he shaked that thought and keeps enjoying sex. He lives out of his head.
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I wish I could say I have a male role model, or even a female one. I’ve always wanted to find one but everyone I even started to look up to, left. Or they are just an act. Wish I could find that male figure I can look up to. I’m 53 and still looking for that model I can look up to and granted, I have several that look up to me and see me as a role model which makes me feel good that they do and I still wish I had one myself
A friend of mine, he has done many changes in his life regarding relationships. He is honest and open to express his emotions or his problems. He is adventorous and tries new things, but he is also one of the most responsable man I know. We support each other and I think he also admires me because I am more sensible and open to say sometimes I am fragile. I are more silly and playful guy. I have tried to be a strong man as the ones in movies. But my way of being on esence is being free, playfull, chill, corny and sweet. I think I am a strong man on my own way. My girlfriend loves me because I share my emotions and I am fragile. I had felt ashamed for being dominant in the past and I have felt bad with me for this side of mine. I had been hard because my intention is never to harm others. This has led me to repress my more kinky and dominant part, but in the past I have enjoyed that and I eant to take this side of me back too. It has been confusing accepting I can be very sensible bur tough and kinky at the same timeSometimes I dont apreciate that and I have thought there is something really bad with me. After this class I have discover I also really respect myself.Sometimes I dont apreciate me and I have thought there is something really bad with me. After this class I have discover I also really respect myself, and I can live on my own terms. I am not a bad person or a weak man. I am unique and my friends, my family and women in my life have love for what I am and many many many times I have said I am broken or worthless and need to be fixed. I enter here to “fix” my penis and "be “a man again”. All this time I have struggle with this ED problem since I left who was the love of my life. When I was with her at the beginning I had ED problems because I didnt felt enough. After that, I had a great relationship and really good sex until we broke up. This separation left me really damaged. I have felt I did something wrong but no. It just ended, I left to be free and be myself truly. After all these time I have found love again and something special. It has been really hard to boost my sexual confidence again but I am trying. I feel weak and like a trash or a loser. But also I have been really brave and strong to handle the grief, and also to let love enters again in my life. For being vulnerable and express my feelings with the ED problems. I want to apologize with myself and say I really respect and love the man I am
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J is the genuine, unique fella I sed to work with, masculine, camp, comfortable. Care free. Super happy and super content with his life
S is a man who treads his own path and is happier for it.
I admire my dad’s work ethic and the way he was able to grow and mellow out as he aged. I admire Fred Rogers’s ability to approach everyone with kindness and turn that kindness into strength.
Not sure that I have a lot of male role models? My dad is a role model, and I admire his ability to speak and lead. He also has an impressive variety of skills and a real sense of responsibility, right and wrong.
My brother. He is strong and doesn’t care what other people think.
I have a friend who doesn’t care about stereotypes or what other ones think about sex. He doesn’t have a high sexual drive but he is super open about it. He can even say things like: “We’re gonna home but we gonna have sex for five minutes and then I am done. I don’t want sex that much and I don’t want to cum.” or “I’d rather cuddle than fuck tonight”. His confidence and ability to communicate like that are some things which I envy and which I want for myself.
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My main role models live life on their terms, are unashamed in their passions and interests and commit fully to living the life they please. They are not interested in what others think of them, supremely focused on their dreams and goals and can include women in their lives as support
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I don’t consider this person a role model, but I do like aspects of their character. My neighbour is gay and very charismatic. He’ll shower people with attention, flirt, make you feel important - and genuinely care. I always have a good time with him around.
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I had sex with a partner recently and he was very open about his likes and dislikes. It was refreshing to have an open interaction and led to a great session. The confidence to say this is what i want and also to meet someone in the middle without fearing rejection
Sadly, I don’t think I have any role models that I would say are authentic in their sexuality. I believe they are all struggling like me.
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