Embarrassed, they just will want to move on to next guy
One time multiple girls as they were all very understanding. Their patience meant I could cum after a few tries of not working
Im fine telling them and it feels good to do so
I think that being honest with yourself and your partner just calms the anxiety from unexpected disappointment. But it’s difficult to approach it due to a fear of negative partner reaction.
But on the other side, when thinking of this fear, the worst thing that could happen is that partner will be disappointed with us anyway even for saying it and leave us - but would you want to be with such unsupportive partner then? Probably not. Everything bad is good for something else, so thinking in the long run, this would give you an opportunity to find a better supportive partner that ultimately leads to healthier relationship and your satisfaction. So, nothing to worry about really 
I fee 100% comfortable. The girl I’ve been seeing for a few months has been amazing. She says “what is the point of me making it about me, that will not help anything” I really feel like I have won the lottery with her.
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I don’t feel comfortable about it at all.
It doesn’t feel too comfortable, to be honest.
It’s a big leap and feels like you are risking everything. Although she is supportive I feel there is only so long she will wait
I’m starting to feel more comfortable about it
It’s something I’ve always found difficult but I think it’s important to let her know that it’s nothing that she’s doing/not doing, it’s just how I am.
It’s embarrassing and I often try to make jokes around it, like “you must just be to beautiful”
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I want a relationship but my confidence is shot by potentially having a negative expirence again
Worried that similar issues will come again and thinking that the partner will not understand what the issue is and then run away from me and the potential relationship
The girl often takes it as a compliment, I still want to last longer though. If it feels amazing why does it have to end so quick
I feel more comfortable talking about it and they’re always very accommodating on it too
I don’t think it ever feels great. I just want to get to the point where I don’t have to have this conversation.
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It feels a bit embarrassing but I’ve never felt as comfortable talking about such issues as with my current partner. That gives me hope
It can be challenging but most times when I explain to my partner how I’m feeling we both feel better afterwards and are glad we had a conversation.
I once opened up about it with a partner and she told me that she was willing to help me with it. This wasnt really truthful since she never wanted to try again. About a month later we broke up and she told me that it was for that reason she didnt like me anymore and insulted me for it. This makes it really hard for me to tell my problem tot the girl Im dating right now because Im scared it will happen again.
It’s difficult and it makes me feel stupid and then I feel worse because I find it so difficult to have the conversation, even though when I do manage to force myself to, I feel better for it