Was always aware that it was a mental issue and avoided uses pills. Considered therapy but the price was an issue. Eventually decided to try mojo as it seemed good value and was worth the shot
Pills, viagra, but I noticed needing more than before, like a neverending cycle. I have done acoustic shock (peak performance), which helps with the physical; as a cyclist, there is some of that. But I also needed help overcoming the infidelity of my wife, and our divorce. Mojo has been super helpful for that.
I spoke to my doctor a few years ago when. It first happened. He gave me some meds and it was enough to get my confidence.
Many many years later with a new partner that thought was there and I had issues again but more consistent. She was understanding though. I was able to speak with her about it, then began speaking to a friend.
Ive told three of my very good friends about this, two of them have had it happen on occasion to them, so they know how crappy it feels. Waiting to see a urologist now too
Doctor, Therapist and tablets
Started doing therapy for other problems also concerning masculinity, trauma and stress. Some of my issues are way better now that I understand it better and having found mojo was really the perfect timing.
I was having erection issues for a long long time and never really tried anything but in these last two weeks it seems almost like they are gone.
I know itās a still work in progress but the optimism Iām feeling now itās great.
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Still working
Looking for ED pills at 27, realized that pills were an easy way to get it up but didnāt take the real problems
Went and saw my GP who cleared me of health issues and alluded to the likelihood it was mental and then I came across Mojo.
Pills, I couldnāt afford councilling at the time.
Medication but I would like to not have to rely on it. Plus it doesnāt always work or it works too well and I canāt ejaculate.
I didnāt have any support. I felt like the only people I could discuss the problem with was my past and present partners
I havenāt tried anything like this I just tried pills which has had mixed results.
I tried a sex therapist but she just said you are young and healthy you will be ok. Now I visit a psychologist and it kinda helps to understand and work on it. But I think mostly Mojo is helping me, especially the podcast about overcoming performance anxiety. The pity is that it has only 6 parts. I would love to visit that therapist or gain access to someone that truly understands and can help me overcome it. Because I havenāt found anyone like that yet.
Now I understand the problem more, Iām glad that Iām not alone and Iām happy that there is a solution somewhere, and we all just have to find the right path.
My main problem is that I never had this issue in my long-term relationship. After that, I had performance anxiety which led to ED and that put me into a vicious circle of ed, low libido, and performance anxiety. And I was wondering how am I going to be able to perform normally like I used to? When it seems unreal right now.
And lately, Iāve realized that I will be able to have sex again without those anxious thoughts about not performing and not maintaining an erection. But now I need just small steps to rewire my path in the brain. To make sex something positive again and not anxious.
Iām so grateful that I found Mojo and this community. I hope that one day I will just look back without any problems connected to this. And able to offer help to others who struggle. It would really fulfill me to help those people.
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Positives are: relieving stress, experimenting with prolonging my endurance before cumming. I āedgeā. I also tried pelvic floor exercises and a better vitamin routine. I also try to eliminate the sensitivity in my penis by masturbating, as I have problems with cumming too quickly because the sensation of sex with my partner excites me a lot. I do also fantasize about my partner when I do this and seek out similar body types and features as hers when searching through porn. I think this could also become a negative. It narrows my fantasies and spend more time than I should going down the rabbit hole.
Mostly online reading articles and trying to understand what the issue might be.
Ed appointment
Pretty much erection medication was all that I did before Mojo. Recently, I have also gotten GainsWave treatment.
Iām using Cialis but it only works for a couple of minutes then I go soft. Iāve purchased online courses full of techniques to use but it didnāt help me
Hey man! My problem is that Iām stuck in a cycle. My body gets drained of energy from all the obsessive masturbation. And then I go on designing new protocols for recover. I follow the protocol and start seeing some results in my health. As soon as I start seeing some improvement, I somehow slip back into the obsessive Masbation habit. And the cycle just repeats. Same happened between December to now.
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