What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

Being able to talk about what I want and desire as well as what she does. Being able stop worrying about if I’m doing everything right and what she is thinking about and just be in the moment and just act on my desires as long as she seems into it, or talking about beforehand to see what she is ok with

Deep connection through pleasure and exploration with your partner.

Deep connection between two people and a chance to see each other in a intimate and vulnerable contect

Being completely present in the moment, being in my body rather than my head.

An emotional bond.

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Just being a bad boy from time to time instead of always being so good …

A time to be in the moment and share pleasures with somebody that you connect with.

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A time to be present and completely with my partner

Being completely present and exploring each other physically, mentally and fantastically

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Deep connection with excitement, pleasure and release

Getting her there, the ultimate thing a couple can do to express their feelings for each other

Feeling that deep connection with another person, giving yourselves to each other

Being close with my partner smiling with her and watching her look at me while I’m inside her hearing her moans and her looking at me gently as I pound her

I think sex is a burst of two (or even more) energies coming together. I feel that you are appreciating your body and the other persons body to mutually reach a boiling point of pleasure.

Sex is pleasure, not a performance activity

Sex is an act to show my partner that I desire her and allows us to connect at a deeper level.

Coming together of two people in shared passion to bring pleasure to self and each other. To express our inner needs with mutual consent and understanding.

Sex is not just a means to orgasm, but an enjoyable act in and of itself

Connecting and playing in a fully trusting way

a low stakes exploration of pleasure with each other, where my enjoyment and needs and theirs are equally important