Shifting from performance mindset to pleasure mindset is the most important thing for me to accomplish to get my sex life back.
I want to have breathtaking sex that makes women addicted to me
Getting naked and enjoying each other’s nether regions. Let’s get comfortable and enjoy each other.
Anything that involves our private parts and makes us happy. Nobody needs to cum
primitive spiritual passionate pleasure
Connection physically with skin on skin and mentally by reading your partners emotions and body language
Full presence together in the moment
A commitment to making each other feel good
Intimacy
Anything that involves pleasure between two partner’s bodies
Feeling like she wants me and I want her and being confident when doing that
Mutual indulgence of our lusts/desires with one another
Sex should be more of a way to communicate your feelings for someone rather than show them how powerful you are, likewise sex shouldn’t be about dominating your partner as much as sharing an experience, weather or not that experience leads to domination
Kissing and all kind of petting, but penetrating is the key
Playful, teasing part, without any objective or goal, just enjoy her body and I enjoying what she does to me
- fulfills the primal sense of being a hunter or predator.
- provides good feelings of basic affection and closeness.
- gives an ego boost of feeling desired by a woman.
- getting to see and hear a woman enjoy being kissed, touched and caressed.
- enjoy the visual sensation of seeing an attactive partner naked and being able touch and have physical proximity.
- the feeling of being inside a woman is amazing. Regardless of how hard an erection is.
Last but not least there is orgasm “busting a but” and there is performance…getting a partner to orgasm but sex can still be good with this list even if rock hard performance isn’t there.
Intimate touch and pleasure for both partners that can include cuddling, massage, masturbation and oral sex.
Just a great time with insane chemistry
Showing my partner just how beautiful they are through touch and kisses
I’d like to cuddle more. I feel like it helps me feel more comfortable and have better, non-scripted erections without the performance anxiety.