I like hearing her moan with pleasure to get wet and respond to my touch. When she asks for me to go deeper or faster or slower. Honestly it is probably the joy of getting past her ‘no not now or here ‘ to a joyful abandon of a joint sexual experience
Art - a pleasurable connection of two souls
Making her squirt
Being truly wild
Being playful, expressing your inner most deepest desires without any shame or guilt, being able to be dominant or submissive without overthinking. Being able to organically move from connection, to a game, to expression of love to pure desire. One big fun game you do with others or yourself.
Doing taboo acts
something that doesn’t need to go to penetration and doesn’t need to keep building - my best sexual experience was one where we stopped, talked for a bit while cuddling, started up again, went back to chilling, and just kept repeating. i want to have more like that
A connection where you both enjoy each others company and get aroused. It doesn’t need penetration but the feeling of passion is there.
Dominating a womans mind, body and soul
Intimacy and vulnerability
Intimacy, warmth and companionship.
A connection where it feels like a deep dive into each other, where it is more than just transactional.
Where you can be so vulnerable with someone and flow with each other physically. When you can let everything go and be so passionate and intimate without having to worry about anything else.
Intimacy that isn’t sexual in nature. Like holding a person close and grabbing them all over, but not in a way where sex is implied to follow.
More communicative and playful, less focus on orgasm more on extended pleasure and fun.
Having fun and enjoying the moment. Accepting awkwardness
Being close and having fun
Exploring your body with someone else and seeing what feels good with no end goal
Sex is fun and a part of intimate communication. At the deepest level it is spiritual. The more honestly the two spirits can communicate using all of our senses the more profound the experience would be. Non judgmental. Expression of love.
Although I am skeptical about love languages, I do know that I am by nature someone who enjoy doing acts of service. That got me to realize that I often enjoy being submissive during sex.