I have always tied sex to the idea of victory and punishment. In the most loving way, I want to punish my wife
A sensual and tactile exploration of each other culminating in orgasm by penetration
A shared moment of physical closeness. Need to be exiting but I want to show her who is the boss.
It should be fun and both parties should be “finished”
Should be fun and good for both
Would like to be dominant in sex
Feeling safe and comfortable to be your genuine self with another individual without shame or judgement
To feel the limits of closeness with a girl. Completely physically and emotionally intertwined.
Sex should be a shared moment of connection and pleasure
Exploring what feels good to do and have done to you, connecting in shared experience.
Being sexually open and liberated with a focus on mutual pleasure. Active and adventourous.
Got to have some emotions
Two people who like each other experiencing fun and sexual time together
No pressure including all kinds of touching, kissing, etc
Mentally arousing one another and flirting
Feeling each other being close
Playing around with eachother
Connecting with my partner. Feeling validated and giving her validation
Being open with what I want and feeling confident about giving that to my partner
Time that both me and my partner can get the most out of intimately with each other without judgement and feeling confident