What have you learned?

I think i would tend to watch porn when i was presented with a visual trigger, like seeing some social media post or ad or something. I would say that I don’t need it though, in those situations i can masturbate without it if i choose, or if that’s too much trouble just wait until I see my gf.

I’d like to journal why I think I watch porn and triggers and try to eliminate those triggers

I have 3 main triggers: to relieve stress; to relieve boredom; or as a distraction mechanism to avoid doing something that I don’t want to do.

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I would like to build a log to discover my triggers over a longer period of time. I think this would also help me to gain greater perspective on whether I think watching porn would be beneficial to me in that moment

Building a log would be great for me

Porn is something I watch when I want to delay an activity

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Often do it to relieve stress but also to satisfy sexual urges in place of my extremely unsatisfying sex life with my wife.

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Mostly do this to relieve stress. When I’m hungover I often want to masturbate to feel better. Struggling to come up with an alternative

I do watch porn to alleviate feelings of loneliness due to lack of sexual satisfaction in real life. I try to get out and meet people but it’s hard at times.

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Stress, fantasies that I suppress IRL, boredom, procrastination and even when my favorite soccer team loses

I watch porn to enhance masturbation. If I feel horny then I want to masturbate, if I’m bored I want to masturbate.

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I feel guilty, my fiance says it’s similar to cheating, and it has affected her visual of herself because she feels like she’s not enough. Even though she is enough, I feel guilty after watching it.

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More admitting that I watch it more to relieve stress, escape and when I am board. Lately I do not feel “satisfied” after doing it.

I watch porn to supress negative feelings when I’m not with my girlfriend

I watch porn only when I’m horny and to get off. I feel more comfortable alone and it’s easier to climax. I always feel terrible and disappointed with myself after.

Watching porn is the only way I can cum when I masterbate and I need to reprogram using other ways

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How do you plan to reprogram yourself?

I have a crush on a girl in my big friend group, but she rejected me. I know we’ll never be together but physically, she’s the image of the perfect woman for me. I masturbate to porn actresses who look like her almost every time after we hang out

I watch it because I feel lonely and at times feel like I’m the only single person out there. I’ve become better about watching it. I should replace this bad habit with a more productive one.

I honestly just do it because I want to ejaculate fast instead of taking my time but then I regret it and I wish that I should’ve took my time instead of rushing to make myself cum fast