It’s myself but with so much doubt and worry. I’ve always pushed myself to be perfect and I’m scared of not being perfect for my partner.
It’s just me. The mean, more confident, less anxious version.
It was me. Demanding perfection
It’ s just me bein critical
It’s myself. I’m my worse enemy. I get in my own head I don’t want to finish too early then I lose my erection
The voice of my brother. The people that were highly critical
Not a true man, arent a sexual being, it only aff
My inner crtic is me. Not agressive. Almost passive and withdrawn, laced with fear of failure or being devalued. Seen as a lesser man. It emasculated me.
Less about a visual, it’s how I see myself and a sense of anxiety and an almost crippling fear of a poor performance.
It’s just me doubting myself, anticipating embarrassment and disappointment.
Comparing myself to others
It’s anxiety that comes from past failed moments
It resembles myself. Just a voice. Saying I can’t get or stay hard. That I’ll fail, or not be able to initiate sex. That I’ll disappoint both her and myself.
my inner critic has no words, just a feeling. A dark lonely feeling thati am disappointing my parent and that i will be like this forever. I have never noticed this feeling before, but i can feel a physical sensation of just how soft i am it becomes exemplified in moments like these. i will be hard then once sex is mentioned. i immediately goes away.
My inner critic is the voice in my head telling me that I am not good enough to pleasure a woman thats more experienced than I am sexually and that I won’t be able to last in bed while also satisfying her
My inner critic tells me that I can’t stay get hard for sex. It’s also manifested as my ex girlfriend who left me after 7 years. Since she left me 8 months ago I’ve had a difficult time with sex. My inner critic confuses me and tells me I’m inadequate.
My inner critic is myself over my shoulder telling me thati won’t be able to stay hard. That I’ve always been a disappointment and that’s why my ex cheated on me. That I’m gonna disappointment the next women.
A checklist of tasks and respo
Certainty of failure
deep dark red ball