I watch porn when my brain is just riddled with lots of fantasies and craziness and I mindlessly jerk myself even if I’m not hard and all I then want is to just cum and get out of thst feelings of excitement. I’m also noticing I’m not breathing in right when I’m watching porn and it’s a compulsion rather than a fun way of watching it
I used to watch porn all the time, especially when I was younger and i think i developed an unhealthy relationship with solo masturbation that has caused issues with partner sex
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I think I need to stop watching certain porn to get me back in the zone with partner sex
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I’ve leaned i watch porn as a comfort. Is like my safe place. A zero pressure environment.
Ive learnt not to dwell on unrealistic expectations and the source of my habbit is to overcome stress in experiencing in life
I’ve learned porn is ok to watch but id prefer not to watch it anyway
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I learned that porn doesn’t have the same effect on your brain as drugs, which is interesting. Also, that the reason I wondered about porn addiction was due to my issues but it doesn’t sound like porn is the problem nor do I have any symptoms of actual porn addiction. So that was comforting.
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I disagree. A lot of new studies are showing that long-term use of porn reduces the grey matter in the brain, and that the dopamine spikes also do affect the cognitive ability negatively in the same matter that drugs do. Practicing moderation in all things is key I beleive, but we have an alarming number of children being exposed to it, as I was.
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First time I don’t feel judged for liking it. No one has ever judged directly of course, but you hear it constantly from all sorts of places that it’s bad and you’re a terrible human for watching it. It’s okay, it’s completely natural, but recognizing when it’s a problem and being armed so that you can do something about it so it becomes something you can safely enjoy rather than feeling like a damn fein is so fkn liberating.
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I’ve learned that porn isn’t the issue. It’s how we’re in taking it
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I loved the video, some real deep insights there. I learnt that situational erection issues are easy to fix and common. This made me feel lighter.
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Damn, I would love to live in a time, where porn didn’t exist the way it does now… I had a very bad moment when I was a child. I was watching porn, then the laptop crashed and the frame was stuck during mid action. I had to ask my mother to shut it down… Though it’s only my second day of using Mojo, this is the first time I actually feel like my situation is curable and all the ED might be linked to anxiety.
For me I felt like it was desensitising me because I was watching so much of it and taking me away from the actual reality of engaging in sex with my partner. Everyone is different but I do feel like it desensitises me
I want to learn habits to stop me from watching it when I get that “craving” feeling. What can I do?
I want to be able to enjoy porn without getting unrealistic expectations about my sex life and worsening my anxiety
I feel like the absence of porn might help me better define my sexual relationship with my partner without expectations. Its not a prerequisite to a relationship however
I think that ethical porn is the best way for me personally. But I do struggle a bit with using just easy online porn like pornhub.
My biggest fear with porn is that the sensation felt and concentration differences cause me to lose erections during real sex.
I sincerely believe that porn is the reason for my issues and my presence here. I moved from a city to a rural area 3 years ago after leaving a bad relationship. My biggest fear is that it’s done irreversible damage to my brain and ability to have sex consistently
I think porn has a place, but for me it becomes more of a habit than a need or a want. Personally I don’t judge those who want to watch, but when something feels like it’s out of your control, then it’s a problem