I want to avoid thinking about porn when I’m having sex
Avoid using it as a relief when I am anxious or bored
I want to do it less, but more because it lets me be in the moment more
I want to do it less and try mastrubating without it and rewire my brain to respond to sensations other than porn in the real world
I just want to have rock-hard erections that last as long as I want so I can fuck real women and make them moan, convulse, and cum really hard. Porn & masturbation literally make it impossible (for me). I can barely get an erection, it’s not that hard, and it will go soft again. It’s like a living nightmare. Fuck porn & jerking off. It ruins your dick & manhood.
I want to use more non visual
I want to avoid porn as a filler for when I am bored, and be more productive with my time
Having gone down the nofap route for the best part of a year i have used it few and far between in the last 5 months. A sense of letting myself down lingers as a result on occassion. nothing new is explored i know what i like. being able to overcome the urge is empowering.
Not using porn when im bored
Give it a break entirely.
I want to learn a variety of ways to self soothe because I have a tendency to use porn and substances as an escape from life.
Use it more in a healthy way
I do not want to have to use porn to be able to orgasm. I’d like to avoid it completely.
I only want to use porn when I am
already horny/aroused. I do not want to watch it out of boredom or because of stress
I want to pay closer attention to make sure than I’m not using it compulsively
I want to rely less on memories of sexual encounters as my “porn” and instead focus on the moment and sensation
I want rely more on my imagination than on porn.
I want to rely less on one type of porn and on porn in general to get off. I don’t feel guilty about it but I want to stop using it as a crutch or avoidance mechanism.
Use it less. Seek out real women to have sex with
i want to find more audio stuff that feels hot to me. when i watch porn, i want to explore more racial variety and body types when it feels like a comfortable/workable enough stretch. i want to pay more attention to the kissing and grinding and oral and not just skip to the penetration. i want to focus more on porn that shows joy, curiosity, ease whenever i come across it. i want to use it as a gateway to getting into my own body and feeling as much sensation through my body as i can.