What do you want to change about your porn use? (Part 2)

Not use it as a time killer while working from home, just watch it when I can relax and enjoy the movie

Have less compulsive habits for sure. I don’t feel bad about using it, nor do I feel like I need it to blow off steam for stress. I guess better moderation and make sure I don’t simply search for some when I’m bored

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I’m realizing that I have certain kinks and porn helped me realize them. But at the same time it’s compulsive and I would like to use my time differently than watching porn. Even when I do want to masturbate I’d rather use my imagination or audios.

I watch porn when I’m bored an also at night as a sleep aid. I was to stop my porn usage and engage more with women. Porn makes me not want to actively engage with women. When I do get to points where I have sex I start excited but get limp rathers fast especially if I’m not very affectionate for the woman

I really shouldn’t watch it when my time is limited. I unconsciously hurry myself. Also switching to audio sounds like a good way to change my habits

You summarised my thoughts exactly.

I want to use other ways to self soothe and relieve stress rather than PMO, such as exercise.
I will try to use some pictures of my partner and audio, I think video has too much of a guilt connotation for me.

I feel I am always striving for more extreme porn, within the bounds of legality, but stuff I never thought Id like. But is that desensitising me from more mainstream sex?

I want to use it less as a stress relieving mechanism and explore a variety of different types and categories

I want to not use it every day. Even for a distraction or just to look and not wank. I also want to gain a more healthy relationship with it. To enjoy it but not every day or as an emotional crutch

I want to just not use it or feel the want/need to use it period

I definitely want it to not become my go to when I play with myself

I want to stop it.

Stop consuming it when I have pent-up horniness (wife on period or traveling without me) and wait until she’s ready for sex or comes home.

I want to not watch any porn.

I’d like to cut back on using porn when I’m lonely and instead use it as an intentional practice of self-care and relief.

When I’m feeling bored, I’d rather pick up a hobby like reading instead of watching porn. When I’m feeling heightened emotionally, I want to use self soothing techniques instead of masturbating/watching porn.

I want to be aroused by my partner and myself as much as by the scenario. Losing shame after porn and gaining variety in my fantasies.

I don’t want to really watch it that much anymore :man_shrugging:t5:

I want to stop watching porn where the guys have huge cocks. I don’t have one of those, but I can still make a girl cum. So why is my ability to cum linked to how big I feel inside her? Because of porn probably

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