What do you want to change about your porn use? (Part 1)

I have had periods of my life where I’ve watched a lot of porn. I gave it up a year ago, and haven’t relapsed. I won’t be going back to it, but I do still fear that I rely on porn-grade images and visuals to be aroused when with a partner, and that I have grown accustomed to needing my penis to be touched in a certain way when seeking to come.

I need to stop watching it to avoid doing other things. I’m terrible at procrastination, so will often watch it instead of working.

I would like to watch it less and get hard erections from more of a vanilla type of porn like I used to, instead of hardcore

I use to watch it a lot. But now it’s just occasionally I don’t want to be dependent on it. I love sex so I think sometimes I would just watch it out of boredom. But I’m better now I don’t want it to affect my sex life.

I recently began feeling guilty watching porn due to the category which I had previously watched and my issues with this relationship. I don’t wish to give up watching porn as I found doing this last time further impacted my relationship with my sexuality. I want to try watching different genres and trying new things to advance my viewing rather than going for the same thing

I don’t think I need to change much about my porn habits…
I do use it sometimes when I’m stressed and want to distract myself from that but it’s seldom.
Maybe I could add more vanilla MF stuff to the mix? I don’t ever really watch MF exclusively since I’m more into solo F or group sex.

Nothing

not feel guilty , not use it as a stress reliever.

Not much, I only watch it when I have alone time

Not feel bad after and use it as a helpful tool not a setback

Stop routinely using porn. Pick up in other areas like exercising and more social outings

i love porn… I love all sorts of it… literally all sorts. I am a bi (more male driven) man and truly love ALL forms of porn. My issue I feel is when I am trying to have intimate sex i often can’t get hard. I worry its due to my love of all varieties and taboos. I’m torn if porn worsens that or is still just a great way to relieve stress. I do find I seek out sexual experiences that meet these fantasies and when in those scenarios I dont have the same erection issues as when I feel intimate

I want to change the feeling of guilt after, i want to feel the same confidence i have while watching porn when im having sex.

Limit to once a week or less. Be cautious about how masturbation can desensitize my nerves in the penis and also cause me to be less aroused by real sex

I want to focus more on enjoying visuals of women that have a similar appearance to my partner.

Never use that shit again

I have a good relationship with porn, it’s no more than a silver lining to masturbation

When I feel bored, I want to read business books instead of scrolling for porn.

Stop using it. I do t need it

Don’t use it to procrastinate, don’t feel guilty if I use it once in a while, try and view it as entertainment and not real life, monitor my usage and how I feel before during and after